Our Wedding

Today, Mr Sugar and I celebrate 4 years of marriage, with 13 years together in total. I’d like to talk about the inspiration behind it as it has shaped me into who I am today.

At the time, Mr Sugar was an officer in the RAF Air Cadets. He has helped me indulge in this love of vintage through his passion and interest in WWII.
The 40’s specifically, fascinate me. From the make do and mend mentality, to how women during wartime still found the time and energy to express themselves with dignity, poise and grace through their hair and make-up in this enormously difficult time. We have come a long way since then and in some ways, I don’t think it’s for the better. The memory of these women and their legacy inspire me to do better.
We have come a long way since then and in some ways, I don’t think it’s for the better. The memory of these women and their legacy inspire me to do better.
We have come a long way since then and in some ways, I don’t think it’s for the better. The memory of these women and their legacy inspire me to do better.

Our wedding was the opportunity to finally get into the scene as he wore his RAF Uniform. It gave me the chance to revel in something I had been quietly passionate about for sometime.
We wanted a quiet ceremony and modest reception which focussed on the people who would be present rather than pomp and ceremony.So we decided a 40’s Street Party theme would be appropriate. (I say “we” like he had a say in the matter. I am the least decisive person in the world, but even Mr Sugar could not have dissuaded me)
So we decided a 40’s Street Party theme would be appropriate. (I say “we” like he had a say in the matter. I am the least decisive person in the world, but even Mr Sugar could not have dissuaded meBetween our friends and family we made save the dates, wedding invitation and the majority of our decorations. What we didn’t make we sourced from attics, boot sales, eBay and charity shops.Having been an avid crafter and scrapbooker I had plenty of supplies and inspiration. Pinterest also has a lot to answer for! From paper doily bunting, to lace wrapped jam jars and from puzzle books to those darn origami cranes!

There were things I was so in love with and would do all over again, but in hindsight there are things I would have chosen not to waste my spoons on like making 12 of the 15 types of cakes we had in our dessert table…

Our wonderful Florist grasped our vision of meadow inspired flowers in both the bouquet and decor which completed the aesthetic. The image I had in my mind is that the community banded together and brought us the best from their gardens as a gift.

I chose my mental well-being over traditional wedding dress shopping.
After a few false starts, I chose the Ava dress from Pin Up Girl clothing that fitted the aesthetic of our wedding and suited my figure. It didn’t matter to me, my husband or our guests that it wasn’t a traditional dress. All they saw was me glowing with pride and getting to marry the man I love.

@jon_bird_photographer captured the day for us perfectly. With a keen eye for the details that were important to me and amazing intuition for candid moments he really made our day. I still love looking over the photos even now and am so proud to show them off to anyone who will stand still long enoughMuch love,Kirsty xx

Lesson learned

Hello lovelies,

Here is the final installment from my latest shoot with Cat at Kitty Jones Photography

As soon as I saw this Dolores dress was in Collectif’s big Summer Sale, I couldn’t resist buying her. If you’ve ever read my blog or seen my Instagram, you’ll know my feelings about Collectif’s swing dresses and the Dolores is no exception.

Another reason, I was so keen to snap up this dress as it reminded me of the dress that Marilyn Monroe wore alongside Arthur Miller in series of photos by Sam Shaw in 1957.

The images always came across as so pure and innocent, far from the persona that was projected around Hollywood.

Cat was more than happy to help make take this little idea I had and make it a reality. So here is our take…

The light was just right towards the end of the shoot. Perfect for the ethereal glow seen here.

This next shot was so difficult to replicate.

I can imagine, Marilyn just playing around in between shots and Shaw capturing this effortless and flawless image. She is poetry in motion and this image has now become so iconic.

A combination of being a bigger girl, not having a lot of stamina due to chronic fatigue and being clumsy, this shot was hard earned.

Now I know I’m no Marilyn, but I gave it a go. Regardless, we had great fun at this shoot and I learned that even though my body can do amazing things, it doesn’t move and photograph like a smaller person’s body.

But all that means is that I have to work hard to find what works for me. That I have to interpret and adapt things that inspire me to work for me personally. And most importantly to be me and no one else.

Much love & vintage wishes,

Kirsty xx

The last days of Summer.

Hello my lovelies!

I hope this finds you all well.

Here is the second installment from my latest shoot with Kitty Jones Photography showcasing my favourite looks from this summer.

I’m an autumnal girl at heart… the weather, the festivities and the fashion. Naturally, my shopping tends to pick up around August when the high street starts to flood it’s stores with all the warm, rich colours and soft cwtchy fabrics that are perfect for layering.

In addition to this, the high street has never been particularly kind to women of my size and shape in the summer and until now I have survived even the hottest weather in jeans, vest tops and cardigans. That all changed when I gave in to my vintage dreams.

The wonderfully sunny weather at the start of the summer had me inspired as much as you all have. With this being my first summer on Instagram, I’ve found I’ve bought more summer clothes this year than probably the last few years combined! So without any further ado…

Introducing the glorious Sunflower swing skirt by Aida Zak & Collectif.

I first saw this beauty back in June when I travelled to Frome to take part in Miss Victory Violet’s Hair Workshop.

It was the first time I had seen so many like minded darlings in one place and it was so lovely to see everyone in their finery!

I was in the course in the afternoon and one of the girls from the morning class was wearing it. Instantly, I was in love!

Does anyone else get this? You can see these clothes on models on the websites and really not think anything of it. You think you’ve gotten away unscathed but then you see it on a real person, whether in real life or on social media and then…Bam! You’re hooked!

The skirt is 100% polyester and is easy to care for. Wash on a 30°c setting, hang up to dry and run a cool iron over it when you’re ready to wear. Absolutely ideal!

As always, with Collectif, it is a true circle skirt. There is so much fabric and it’s just the right weight. Its unlikely to get caught by a breeze but I could not help but give myself up to spinning and twirling around, the full skirt flared out in a striking fluttering blur of brilliant colour.

As you can see here, I have paired it with one of Collectif’s Dolores top in white and some mustard suede slip on shoes from Primark. But the colours are so rich, I think I may be able to string this out through autumn but using cooler, darker colours to wear with it. Maybe pulling focus on the dark green leaves or even the brown. What do you think?

Thank you as always for reading!

Much love & vintage wishes,

Kirsty XX

Hello again…

Hello again my lovelies! I know it’s been such a long time but it’s been an unusual few months.

I shan’t bore you with all the unpleasantness but the love and support of my dear friends and family along with sheer grit and determination, well… Let’s just say things are looking up!

So I jumped at the opportunity to shoot with the wonderful Cat from Kitty Jones photography again. I thought I’d do a little summer round up of my favourite pieces along with a little tribute later in the series.

We headed to the picturesque Bryngarw Park, to make use of the beautiful gardens and to start the series with this gorgeous Caterina Dress from Collectif.

I had always scrolled by the Caterina dresses on the Collectif website as buttons and I don’t tend to get along. But the range of options this dress comes in season after season is getting more varied and harder to pass by.

I was lucky enough to come across this dress at Lou Lou’s Vintage Fair in Cardiff last spring. My husband actually spotted it, he insisted I try it on and I have to say I wasn’t sure. But my mind was soon swayed by this beauty.

The Caterina really did fit beautifully, which is true to form for most Collectif items. I can’t speak for anyone else, but their cuts are very empathetic to my body shape and proportions.

There is a slight tugging at the buttons but the Cotton & Spandex mix (97:3%) handled the girls like a champ!

Another thing that Collectif does really well is swishy skirts… You really do get a lot of fabric in the skirts. Perfect for swirling, twirling but not so much for ironing! Hahaha!

The dress was £68 originally but I snapped it up for around £25. Although it is currently selling for just £17! Go check it out!

Much love & vintage wishes,

Kirsty xx

The Mystery Blogger Award!

So, I had a little surprise on Saturday… I had the honour and pleasure of being nominated for ‘The Mystery Blogger Award’ by Anchors and Swallows! The lovely Laura actually found my blog first and has remained one of my most faithful and encouraging followers. (Thank you lovely! xx) Not only is she absolutely darling but is always creating insightful and engaging content. Be sure to head over to her blog and check it out.

“Mystery Blogger Award is an award for amazing bloggers with ingenious posts. Their blog not only captivates; it inspires and motivates. They are one of the best out there, and they deserve every recognition they get. This award is also for bloggers who find fun and inspiration in blogging, and they do it with so much love and passion.” Created by: Okoto Enigma


  • Thank whoever nominated you and include a link to their blog
  • Tell your readers three things about yourself
  • Nominate 10-20 bloggers you feel deserve the award (I’m going to shamelessly copy Laura here and will be modifying this as I don’t have a lot of time to read as many blogs as I’d like to at the moment. I plan to change this soon)
  • Answer the questions from the person who nominated you
  • Ask your nominees 5 questions of your choice, with one weird or funny one
  • Notify your nominees by commenting on their blog

Three Things About Me:

* I am obsessed with personality typing; specifically the Myers-Briggs test. I completed this test about 3 years ago and it transformed my view of myself and my self esteem

The results page felt as is someone had completed a stock check of my inner most thoughts and feelings and put it to paper for me to view. Very intense and interesting. I love it mostly because it has helped me accept that who I am is ok and that it’s ok to be different. I highly recommend you go check it out https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

I’m an INFP if you’re interested 😊

* I have worked in retail and customer service all of my working life. I am the epitome of good customer service and making people happy but secretly hate people 😂 Individual people rock and I have tribe of people I love fiercely but, people in general outside of the vintage community… Ewe!

* Having been diagnosed with an invisible illness when I was 15, I was always very cautious not to anger the energy god’s. But since ive found a new medication, I’m making up for lost time. In the last 2 years alone, I have learned to drive, started a blog and Instagram account to document my vintage journey, participated in a fashion show, changed jobs, travelled around the UK as much as possible and so many more things you’ll no doubt hear about soon!

My Questions:

What is something you don’t like, but everyone else loves?

*Game of thrones and walking dead…I can binge watch a show like no-ones business but just can’t get my head around these.

What do you think is your best quality?

*I am the best cheerleader. Need a confidence boost, I am your girl!

What do you love most about blogging?

*I think finding a little corner of this big old world where like minded people can connect.

What would be the best thing to come out for 2018 for you?

*Good health and happiness in my work life. Everything else is under control for now.

If you could be any animal, what would you be?

*A sloth! I think they are adorable and get to sleep as much as I want to

Ok, so the wonder people I am nominating are:

Miss Any May

Miss Pebbles Girl

Laci Fay

The Eyre Effect

Penny Snark

Questions for my nominees:

What draws you towards vintage style?

What is your favourite clothing/accessory purchase?

What most inspires you within this community?

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?

I would love to see your responses, either in the comments or in a Mystery Blogger post of your own!

Kitty Jones Photography Collaboration – Final installment

It’s that time again folks! I was hoping to release these photos when spring had arrived but low and behold, more snow is on the horizon. It’s almost become a tradition, haha!

So back we go, to that wonderful day at the start of March when I spent the day with Cat from Kitty Jones photography.

We were located in the ‘Old End’ of Llantwit Major town. This side of the town is filled with beautiful buildings which are hundreds of years old. We began near the dovecote set in an open field in the beautiful Welsh countryside with views for miles over to the local beach.

The conclusion of the shoot celebrated one of my Black Friday Sale deals from Lindy Bop – Corinna.

For the shoot, I have paired it with a true vintage cardigan that I purchased as the vintage kilo sale in Cardiff. Goodness knows what era it is, but it does exactly what I wanted; a cream cardi that would not show the pattern of the dress beneath. Not a massive ask, but I’ve spent 2 years searching the high street! Urgh!

Now, red and white polka dot is my all time favourite colour/pattern combination. It’s just makes my heart sing. The added cuteness of the Corinna dress is that instead of dots, you have little white hearts. Sweet!

I wouldn’t normally choose a dress that buttons up over the bust but this dress has an shirred elasticated back that not only gives you comfort and wearablity, but it is generous across the bust so there is no pulling or gaping. It also makes it easy to take on and off, great for days where my dexterity isn’t it’s best and buttons are a no go.

The dress has a generous shoulder strap so it gives us larger busted gals plenty of coverage over unsightly bra straps and is trimmed with a lovely white ric-rac ribbon. This trim is replicated on the pockets situated on the front of the skirt.

Pockets in a skirt or dress make me really happy, is it just me?

The dress is made of a light cotton with a lovely full skirt. It may not come out at this time of year again but already cannot wait to pair it with sunnies, sandals and a hat through the summer.

I can definitely see me buying another Corinna dress from Lindy Bop. I’m always happy with the quality of the dresses, their fit and shape. And this is no different!

Dress – Corinna, Lindy Bop

Cardi – True Vintage

Shoes – Lilley & Skinner

Much love & vintage wishes,

Kirsty xx

Kitty Jones Photography Collaboration – Part 2

The last 3 weeks have been strange. I don’t know if anyone else had this feeling when the snow hit at the end of Feb. Most of our county was in lock down for days and it hung around for weeks.

This is our street 2 days in and it took the best part of a week to dig all the street out. Our backgarden is at a lower level that the street and filled up like a ball pit. At its worst, it was nearly 5ft deep!

We only had a few little mounds left this week but it has now started again.

In my 20’s I used to see my excitement for snow as a sign that I was still young at heart. I knew that when I could only see the negatives, I would finally be a grown up. Well, ladies and gentlemen, in my 31st year I can say that it has come…

I just want to get back to having a calm and easy life, dressing how I want to dress and feeling how I want to feel.

Until that can happen, let’s relive a day where I felt amazing and looked pretty ok too.

Here’s some of the images for my wonderful shoot with Cat from Kitty Jones Photography.

Not only does she have an amazing eye for a location but she has written a little blurb about the location too.

“Our second location was located in the ‘Old End’ of the town and is locally referred to as the ‘Goldfish Pond’ owing to the large fish within. A false herring has stood in the pond to scare away the fish’s predators for years and many of the surrounding houses are named things along the line of ‘Herring House’. The large stone pond is covered by a stunning weeping willow which looks just as striking in Winter as I’m sure it does in summer.”

I’ve decided I need this lighting with me where ever I go. I even look like I’m researching and plotting a way to make it happen here, haha!

I love the look of this dress in this location. The beautiful Audrey Rose Bush dress by Lindy Bop really stood out in the rustic setting. I adored the contrast between its subtle sheen, gorgeous colour palette and the texture of the bricks and tree bark.

I have a feeling this dress will become a firm favourite as it is comfortable and easy to wear. It can easily be dressed up of down for a variety of different occasions and will prove versitile depending on accessories from Autumn to Spring.

See you soon lovelies.

Much love & vintage wishes,

Kirsty xx